February 26, 2020

Breaking Addiction is Socially Unacceptable

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Summary

The main topic of this podcast episode is the nature of addiction and how it affects our relationships and activities. The host, Naval Ravikant, discusses the artificial pleasure that substances like alcohol can bring and how it can lead to addiction.

Key points of the episode include:

The artificial nature of pleasure derived from substances like alcohol, which can lead to addiction and desensitization.
The difficulty of breaking addictions, not just because of physical withdrawal but also because it requires a change in lifestyle.
The idea that fake relationships and activities are often held together by substances, and that giving them up can be socially unacceptable.
The problem of looking forward to holidays and weekends, which can indicate that one has accepted a way of life in which most of their time is spent suffering.

Participants in the episode include:

Naval Ravikant

Takeaways from the episode include:

The importance of recognizing the artificial nature of pleasure derived from substances and the need to change one's lifestyle to overcome addiction.
The need to re-evaluate one's relationships and activities to ensure they are meaningful and fulfilling without the influence of substances.

Transcript

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If you drink alcohol or if you take some kind of drug regularly, try the following thought experiment. What events do you most look forward to? I will bet you there are the events where you get to do these things. So if you drink alcohol, you look forward to dinner time or you look forward to that party that's coming up when you get to go out with your friends at the bar. To see how artificial it is, resolve that the next one you go to, you're not going to drink at all or you're not going to do the drug. And now ask yourself, how much am I looking forward to that event? You'll find not at all. This creates a conundrum. If I give up these sources of artificial pleasure that can lead to addiction and desensitize me or just bring misery down on me later by missing them, then I'm miserable because I don't get to socialize with anybody. I don't have fun, I don't go out. Breaking addictions is very hard, not just because you have to break the physical addiction, but because you then also have to change your lifestyle to the lifestyle that you would be happy without that substance. For example, if I want to drink because I get to hang out with friends and be social and I do that enough and pretty soon I'm hanging out with a whole bunch of friends that I actually would not hang out with sober. I can't tolerate these people sober. I can't tolerate these topics sober. I can't tolerate these venues sober. I can only do it drunk. Well, if I stop drinking, then what happens? I have to get rid of these friends. I have to get rid of these activities. I have to find brand new activities and brand new friends. This is very hard and very socially unacceptable. These fake relationships and these fake activities were just being held together by the alcohol, I realized a while back that it's actually a problem to really look forward to holidays and to weekends because it indicates two things. One is it takes the joy out of the everyday because now you're living in the future, you're suffering the rest of the time. And second is it means you've accepted a way of life in which most of your time is spent suffering.

Breaking Addiction is Socially Unacceptable

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